fix: use non-symbols in isURLInstance check

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Description of Change

Closes #24794.

This slightly changes the conditional used to determine whether or
not something is a URL instance. Since Node.js adds symbols to the URL
not specified by the WHATWG, those symbols are not present in other
implementations (like Blink's) and therefore can cause false negatives.

This fixes that by slightly changing the check to properties present
in all URL instances as specified in the WHATWG spec.

Upstreamed at: nodejs/node#34622.

cc @zcbenz @ckerr @MarshallOfSound

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Release Notes

Notes: Fixed an issue where some Node.js methods would not work with URL instances constructed in the renderer process.

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Release Notes Persisted

Fixed an issue where some Node.js methods would not work with URL instances constructed in the renderer process.

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