fix: invalidate ssrError when HMR update occurs

[matthewp]

Description

When a module is invalidated for HMR we need to also invalidate mod.ssrError in order to allow the module to attempt to be re-executed.

Additional context

No

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[patak-dev]

For future reference, this is a regression we introduced in #7177. I'll cherry-pick this one in v2 so we can release a patch for 2.9.x

[patak-dev]

@matthewp this PR has been included in vite@2.9.9

[matthewp]

@patak-dev looks like I missed a spot :/. New PR to finish it up: #8124