Add sqlite3 to the default list of server externals (#42294)

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#41745 (comment)

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packages/next/lib/server-external-packages.ts

@@ -17,4 +17,5 @@ export const EXTERNAL_PACKAGES = [
   'next-seo',
   'rimraf',
   'next-mdx-remote',
+  'sqlite3',
 ]