Will/airlift 214 backport

[willmostly]

Description

This PR tests backporting airlift 214 to trino 356. It is an experimental PR that will assist in debugging a potential TLS/Jetty issue.

Is this change a fix, improvement, new feature, refactoring, or other?
Other - debugging.
Is this a change to the core query engine, a connector, client library, or the SPI interfaces? (be specific)
This affects dependencies in core, connectors and tests. Clients were excluded.
How would you describe this change to a non-technical end user or system administrator?
This will allow testing with an upgraded version of Trino's web server component with an older Trino version.

Related issues, pull requests, and links

Potential issue in the version included in 356: jetty/jetty.project#6175

Documentation

( ) No documentation is needed.
( ) Sufficient documentation is included in this PR.
( ) Documentation PR is available with #prnumber.
( ) Documentation issue #issuenumber is filed, and can be handled later.

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# Section
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[ebyhr]

This PR tests backporting airlift 214 to trino 356.

@willmostly Did you send the PR to wrong repository?