ext(native): work around darwin linker behavior in Ruby 3.2

rake-compiler/rake-compiler-dock#87

ext/sqlite3/extconf.rb

@@ -77,16 +77,21 @@ def configure_packaged_libraries
           abort_pkg_config("pkg_config") unless pkg_config(pcfile)
 
           # see https://bugs.ruby-lang.org/issues/18490
-          flags = xpopen(["pkg-config", "--libs", "--static", pcfile], err: [:child, :out], &:read)
+          ldflags = xpopen(["pkg-config", "--libs-only-l", "--static", pcfile], err: [:child, :out], &:read)
           abort_pkg_config("xpopen") unless $?.success?
-          flags = flags.split
+          ldflags = ldflags.split
 
-          # see https://github.com/flavorjones/mini_portile/issues/118
-          "-L#{lib_path}".tap do |lib_path_flag|
-            flags.prepend(lib_path_flag) unless flags.include?(lib_path_flag)
+          static_archive_path = File.join(lib_path, "libsqlite3.#{$LIBEXT}")
+          ldflags.delete("-lsqlite3")
+
+          if needs_darwin_linker_hack
+            ldflags.prepend("-Wl,-load_hidden,#{static_archive_path}")
+            ldflags.prepend("-Wl,-flat_namespace")
+          else
+            ldflags.prepend(static_archive_path)
           end
 
-          flags.each { |flag| append_ldflags(flag) }
+          ldflags.each { |ldflag| append_ldflags(ldflag) }
         end
       end
 
@@ -172,6 +177,17 @@ def download
         minimal_recipe.download
       end
 
+      def needs_darwin_linker_hack
+        # See https://github.com/rake-compiler/rake-compiler-dock/issues/87 for more info.
+        cross_build? &&
+          darwin? &&
+          RbConfig::CONFIG["ruby_version"] >= "3.2"
+      end
+
+      def darwin?
+        RbConfig::CONFIG["target_os"].include?("darwin")
+      end
+
       def print_help
         print(<<~TEXT)
           USAGE: ruby #{$PROGRAM_NAME} [options]