Fix distributed issue by including distributed files (pytorch#87615)

This fixes regression in distributed headers installation.
Caused by following PR: pytorch#85953
which removed the inclusions

Fixes pytorch#87173

Test plan from wheel build by this CI: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/actions/runs/3314742519

```
[ec2-user@ip-10-0-9-132 c10d]$ pwd
/home/ec2-user/actions-runner/_work/_temp/artifacts/torch/include/torch/csrc/distributed/c10d
[ec2-user@ip-10-0-9-132 c10d]$ ls -las
total 300
 4 drwxr-xr-x 2 ec2-user ec2-user  4096 Oct 24 19:12 .
 0 drwxr-xr-x 4 ec2-user ec2-user    29 Oct 24 19:12 ..
12 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  9051 Oct 24 17:28 Backend.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user   216 Oct 24 17:28 c10d.h
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  3880 Oct 24 17:28 comm.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user   604 Oct 24 17:28 debug.h
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  1717 Oct 24 17:28 default_comm_hooks.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  1316 Oct 24 17:28 error.h
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user   962 Oct 24 17:28 exception.h
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  1461 Oct 24 17:28 FileStore.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user   771 Oct 24 17:28 GlooDeviceFactory.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  1154 Oct 24 17:28 HashStore.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  4058 Oct 24 17:28 logger.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  2059 Oct 24 17:28 logging.h
 8 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  7979 Oct 24 17:28 NCCLUtils.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  2756 Oct 24 17:28 Ops.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  1814 Oct 24 17:28 ParamCommsUtils.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  1478 Oct 24 17:28 PrefixStore.hpp
16 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user 13235 Oct 24 17:28 ProcessGroupGloo.hpp
12 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user 11298 Oct 24 17:28 ProcessGroup.hpp
12 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  8645 Oct 24 17:28 ProcessGroupMPI.hpp
28 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user 26526 Oct 24 17:28 ProcessGroupNCCL.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  3805 Oct 24 17:28 ProcessGroupRoundRobin.hpp
12 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user 10361 Oct 24 17:28 ProcessGroupUCC.hpp
 8 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  5062 Oct 24 17:28 ProcessGroupWrapper.hpp
 8 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  4201 Oct 24 17:28 PyProcessGroup.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  1072 Oct 24 17:28 python_comm_hook.h
24 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user 23859 Oct 24 17:28 reducer.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  2330 Oct 24 17:28 reducer_timer.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  1683 Oct 24 17:28 sequence_num.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  2108 Oct 24 17:28 socket.h
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  2589 Oct 24 17:28 Store.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  3264 Oct 24 17:28 TCPStore.hpp
 8 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  6944 Oct 24 17:28 TraceUtils.h
 8 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  4539 Oct 24 17:28 Types.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user   580 Oct 24 17:28 UCCForNCCL.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  2301 Oct 24 17:28 UCCTracing.hpp
 8 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  4933 Oct 24 17:28 UCCUtils.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user   584 Oct 24 17:28 UnixSockUtils.hpp
24 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user 20796 Oct 24 17:28 Utils.hpp
 4 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user   575 Oct 24 17:28 WinSockUtils.hpp
 8 -rw-r--r-- 1 ec2-user ec2-user  4259 Oct 24 17:28 Work.hpp
```

Pull Request resolved: pytorch#87615
Approved by: https://github.com/malfet

setup.py

@@ -1097,7 +1097,8 @@ def main():
         'include/torch/csrc/autograd/generated/*.h',
         'include/torch/csrc/autograd/utils/*.h',
         'include/torch/csrc/cuda/*.h',
-        'include/torch/csrc/distributed/c10d/exception.h',
+        'include/torch/csrc/distributed/c10d/*.h',
+        'include/torch/csrc/distributed/c10d/*.hpp',
         'include/torch/csrc/distributed/rpc/*.h',
         'include/torch/csrc/jit/*.h',
         'include/torch/csrc/jit/backends/*.h',