fix: self referencing with through table where-clause clashes with the included models

[shawara]

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Description Of Change

Fix self-reference with though table where-clause in include not working correctly because top parent name in the where-clause clashes with the included models.
Closes #16719

[shawara]

@WikiRik could you review it?