chore: Use black-jupyter pre-commit hook over nbqa-black

[matthewfeickert]

As noted in #276 (comment) there is now a black[jupyter] extra that allows for Black to run on Jupyter notebooks. nbqa-black does this, but Marco Gorelli contributed this functionality to Black so now the black-jupyter hook will be the equivalent hook as running black and nbqa-black.

c.f. scikit-hep/pyhf#1598 for more details / an example

Suggested squash and merge commit message

* Use jupyter-black pre-commit hook id from Black
   - black-jupyter will run on Python and pyi files, so it replaces the black hook id as well
* Remove nbqa-black pre-commit hook from nbQA
   - Marco Gorelli essentially contributed nbqa-black to Black in the form of jupyter-black
* Update the pyupgrade version used as an additional_dependencies to match that of the pyupgrade hook

[henryiii]

Nice, I knew they added support, but didn't realize the pre-commit integration was so good. I didn't even know types_or was already being used. :) scikit-hep/boost-histogram#638