Epic: Fork cri-dockerd and apply fix to metrics performance problem

[jandubois]

See #2012 for details

Tasks

• Fork https://github.com/Mirantis/cri-dockerd into rancher-sandbox org
• Apply Fix metrics performance issue #15 Mirantis/cri-dockerd#38 in a branch
• Create GH action to build a release (maybe can re-use what already exists); strip symbols etc to shrink image
• Tag and create release
• Update https://github.com/lima-vm/alpine-lima and https://github.com/rancher-sandbox/rancher-desktop-wsl-distro to use the release from the fork instead of upstream

[jandubois]

Fixed by #2085