Run make_wheel_record parallel in background

[xwang233]

By running make_wheel_record parallel in background, this saves ~8 minutes on my 12-core intel machine with a full cuda wheel build. It basically makes the loop "instant".

https://unix.stackexchange.com/questions/42544/does-redirecting-output-to-a-file-apply-a-lock-on-the-file/42564#42564
This answer suggested that each line will still be a line while written in parallel to the record file.

https://unix.stackexchange.com/questions/103920/parallelize-a-bash-for-loop/436713#436713
If overloading CPU is a concern, we may try this native wait -n bash trick to limit the concurrency.

[xwang233]

cc @malfet @atalman @ptrblck

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@xwang233 please open test PR in pytorch/pytorch for this change and attach ciflow/binaries label to it so that it will actually trigger binary builds