sink(ticdc): quick fail on create table error without primary key when downstream sql_require_primary_key is set (#11144)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #11144

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #11143

What is changed and how it works?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

1. create a changefeed;
2. run set global sql_require_primary_key=true; on downstream tidb cluster;
3. run create table t (a int, b varchar(200) not null unique key); on upstream tidb cluster;
4. check the changefeed state to see whether is reports a warning or error quickly;

Questions

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

Release note

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