fix: catch missing arg if using {prepare-}commit-msg stage

If using the prepare-commit-msg and commit-msg stages specifically (such
    as with the try-repo command), the `--commit-msg-filename` arg must be
provided.

[fixes pre-commit#1336]

chore: improve error message for hook stage check

pre_commit/commands/run.py

@@ -306,6 +306,9 @@ def run(
             f'`git add {config_file}` to fix this.',
         )
         return 1
+    if args.hook_stage in {'prepare-commit-msg', 'commit-msg'} and not args.commit_msg_filename:
+        logger.error(f'`--commit-msg-filename` is required for `--hook-stage {args.hook_stage}`')
+        return 1
 
     # Expose origin / source as environment variables for hooks to consume
     if args.origin and args.source: