proxy: v2.181.0

[olix0r]

This release fixes a bug in the proxy's outbound load balancer that
could cause panics, especially when the balancer processes many service
discovery updates in a short period of time.

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• build(deps): bump tracing from 0.1.34 to 0.1.35 (build(deps): bump tracing from 0.1.34 to 0.1.35 linkerd2-proxy#1744)
• build(deps): bump tj-actions/changed-files from 22.2 to 23 (build(deps): bump tj-actions/changed-files from 22.2 to 23 linkerd2-proxy#1745)
• build(deps): bump getrandom from 0.2.6 to 0.2.7 (build(deps): bump getrandom from 0.2.6 to 0.2.7 linkerd2-proxy#1746)
• build(deps): bump unicode-ident from 1.0.0 to 1.0.1 (build(deps): bump unicode-ident from 1.0.0 to 1.0.1 linkerd2-proxy#1747)
• build(deps): bump wasm-bindgen from 0.2.80 to 0.2.81 (build(deps): bump wasm-bindgen from 0.2.80 to 0.2.81 linkerd2-proxy#1749)
• build(deps): bump web-sys from 0.3.57 to 0.3.58 (build(deps): bump web-sys from 0.3.57 to 0.3.58 linkerd2-proxy#1751)
• build(deps): bump arbitrary from 1.1.0 to 1.1.2 (build(deps): bump arbitrary from 1.1.0 to 1.1.2 linkerd2-proxy#1754)
• build(deps): bump indexmap from 1.8.2 to 1.9.0 (build(deps): bump indexmap from 1.8.2 to 1.9.0 linkerd2-proxy#1756)
• build(deps): bump prettyplease from 0.1.11 to 0.1.12 (build(deps): bump prettyplease from 0.1.11 to 0.1.12 linkerd2-proxy#1757)
• update Tower to 0.4.13 to fix load balancer panic (update Tower to 0.4.13 to fix load balancer panic linkerd2-proxy#1758)

Signed-off-by: Oliver Gould ver@buoyant.io