Update reflectx to allow for optional nested structs

[geeeeeeeeek]

Based on #847, but fixed an issue that optional pointer fields are not handled correctly.

Nested structs are now only instantiated when one of the database columns in that nested struct is not nil. This allows objects scanned in left/outer joins to keep their natural types (instead of setting everything to NullableX).

Example:

select house.id, owner.*,
from house
left join owner on owner.id = house.owner

Before

type House struct {
 ID      int
 Owner   *Person // if left join gives nulls, Owner is set
}

type Owner struct {
 ID sql.NullInt64 // make nullable columns even tho if table doesn't have those columns nullable
}

After

type House struct {
 ID      int
 Owner   *Person // if left join gives nulls, Owner will be nil
}

type Owner struct {
 ID int    // no need to set this to sql.NullInt
}

[dlsniper]

Hello, @ardan-bkennedy, and I recently stepped in to help maintain this project.
We are sorting the opened issues and pull requests and would like to know if you still NEED this merged.
Thank you for your contribution.

[taleeus]

This would be insanely useful 🙏🏻