add node v22 to test matrix

add node 22 to ci test pipeline and use with { type: 'json' } import syntax for node >= 20,

• add node 22 to ci test pipeline thanks @aladdin-add
• use json import syntax with { type: 'json' } for node 22
• skip node 22 tests on windows-latest ci, where node 22 is in a broken state, see nodejs/node#52682