add bettermap instead of go map

[xuetusc]

add bettermap instead of go map
delete go map key will only label it, not really delete that causes memory leak.

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[jefferai]

This code isn't thread safe. What's the memory leak exactly?

Is the benefit you see merely from swapping out the map instead of removing items?