Make protocol version check more strict

[dveeden]

Closes #876

MySQL has:

• Protocol version 9 (very very old on port 3306/tcp)
• Protocol version 10 (a.k.a. Classic Protocol on port 3306/tcp)
• Protocol version 11 (X Protocol, this is a new protocol (protobuf based) and on port 33060/tcp)

When connecting to port 33060 instead of 3306 by mistake the version check didn't return an error when it should have.

$ go run go-mysql-876.go 
2024/05/13 22:08:39 failed to query: readInitialHandshake: invalid protocol version 11, expected 10. This might be X Protocol, make sure to connect to the right port
exit status 1

package main

import (
	"database/sql"
	"log"

	_ "github.com/go-mysql-org/go-mysql/driver"
)

func main() {
	db, err := sql.Open("mysql", "root@127.0.0.1:33070")
	if err != nil {
		log.Fatalf("failed to connect to mysql: %s", err)
	}
	defer db.Close()

	_, err = db.Exec("DO 1")
	if err != nil {
		log.Fatalf("failed to query: %s", err)
	}
}

podman run -p 3307:3306 -p 33070:33060 --env MYSQL_ALLOW_EMPTY_PASSWORD=1 -it mysql:8.4.0