fix: remove txs from mempool when antehandler fails in recheck (backport #20144)

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Description

this pr removes txs from the mempool when the antehandler fails and the mode is in recheck

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Summary by CodeRabbit

• New Features
  • Enhanced error handling for transaction processing, ensuring smoother performance and reliability.
• Tests
  • Updated test assertions to align with new transaction handling behaviors.
• Bug Fixes
  • Improved handling of failed ante handler during transaction recheck.

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