Replace macro with TypedDictionaryArray in comparison kernels

[viirya]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #2513.

Rationale for this change

What changes are included in this PR?

Are there any user-facing changes?

[tustvold]

Might be worth double checking the benchmarks

[viirya]

dict eq string          time:   [509.02 µs 509.31 µs 509.70 µs]                           
                        change: [-7.5163% -7.4216% -7.3388%] (p = 0.00 < 0.05)
                        Performance has improved.
Found 10 outliers among 100 measurements (10.00%)

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = a90fc64 and contender = c20bb8a. c20bb8a is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-rs-commits is not supported on ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-rs-commits is not supported on test-mac-arm] test-mac-arm
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-rs-commits is not supported on ursa-i9-9960x] ursa-i9-9960x
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-rs-commits is not supported on ursa-thinkcentre-m75q] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java