Speedup take_boolean / take_bits for non-null indices (~4 - 5x speedup)

[Dandandan]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #2306

Rationale for this change

Speedup for (common) case of non-null indices array:

Benchmarking take bool 512: Collecting 100 samples in estimated 5.0003 s (6.8M i                                                                                take bool 512           time:   [733.01 ns 733.90 ns 735.34 ns]
                       change: [-76.500% -76.428% -76.358%] (p = 0.00 < 0.05)
                       Performance has improved.
Found 3 outliers among 100 measurements (3.00%)
 3 (3.00%) high severe

Benchmarking take bool 1024: Collecting 100 samples in estimated 5.0004 s (3.9M                                                                                 take bool 1024          time:   [1.2751 µs 1.2767 µs 1.2786 µs]
                       change: [-79.428% -79.373% -79.309%] (p = 0.00 < 0.05)
                       Performance has improved.
Found 1 outliers among 100 measurements (1.00%)
 1 (1.00%) high severe

What changes are included in this PR?

Are there any user-facing changes?

[Dandandan]

FYI @jhorstmann this is just brining the special case back (I saw i was discussed a bit here #2064 (comment)). I think for now this might be the easy way forward while we work on making this work more generally.

[alamb]

👌 looks very nice to me

[alamb]

I was trying to figure out how to use https://docs.rs/arrow/19.0.0/arrow/datatypes/trait.ArrowNativeType.html#method.to_usize here to make the code slightly more pretty, but it wasn't obvious to me 🤷

[Dandandan]

Yeah, the pattern occurs quite often. Maybe we can at least reduce the amount of ok_or_else(|| {... by having this function available (so it becomes something like let index = ToPrimitive::to_usize_or_error(&index)?; everywhere?

[alamb]

Perhaps more rust like:

ToPrimitive::try_to_usize(&index)?

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = d56d88e and contender = 4b15b7e. 4b15b7e is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-rs-commits is not supported on ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-rs-commits is not supported on test-mac-arm] test-mac-arm
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-rs-commits is not supported on ursa-i9-9960x] ursa-i9-9960x
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-rs-commits is not supported on ursa-thinkcentre-m75q] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
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test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
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ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java