support node.js builtin modules in esm build dependencies

[sokra]

What kind of change does this PR introduce?
bugfix

Did you add tests for your changes?
yes

Does this PR introduce a breaking change?
no

What needs to be documented once your changes are merged?
nothing

[webpack-bot]

For maintainers only:

• This needs to be documented (issue in webpack/webpack.js.org will be filed when merged)
• This needs to be backported to webpack 4 (issue will be created when merged)

[vankop]

yeah, I forgot..