diff --git a/spring-beans/src/main/java/org/springframework/beans/factory/support/AbstractAutowireCapableBeanFactory.java b/spring-beans/src/main/java/org/springframework/beans/factory/support/AbstractAutowireCapableBeanFactory.java
index a013c2bdce16..43e44308ae44 100644
--- a/spring-beans/src/main/java/org/springframework/beans/factory/support/AbstractAutowireCapableBeanFactory.java
+++ b/spring-beans/src/main/java/org/springframework/beans/factory/support/AbstractAutowireCapableBeanFactory.java
@@ -1830,6 +1830,12 @@ protected void invokeCustomInitMethod(String beanName, Object bean, RootBeanDefi
 			}
 		}
 
+		if (Modifier.isPrivate(initMethod.getModifiers())) {
+			if (mbd.isExternallyManagedInitMethod(ClassUtils.getQualifiedMethodName(initMethod))) {
+				return;
+			}
+		}
+
 		if (logger.isTraceEnabled()) {
 			logger.trace("Invoking init method  '" + initMethodName + "' on bean with name '" + beanName + "'");
 		}
diff --git a/spring-beans/src/main/java/org/springframework/beans/factory/support/DisposableBeanAdapter.java b/spring-beans/src/main/java/org/springframework/beans/factory/support/DisposableBeanAdapter.java
index 23354b6cccb2..38f74c92a5aa 100644
--- a/spring-beans/src/main/java/org/springframework/beans/factory/support/DisposableBeanAdapter.java
+++ b/spring-beans/src/main/java/org/springframework/beans/factory/support/DisposableBeanAdapter.java
@@ -19,6 +19,7 @@
 import java.io.Serializable;
 import java.lang.reflect.InvocationTargetException;
 import java.lang.reflect.Method;
+import java.lang.reflect.Modifier;
 import java.util.ArrayList;
 import java.util.List;
 
@@ -113,9 +114,8 @@ public DisposableBeanAdapter(Object bean, String beanName, RootBeanDefinition be
 					(bean instanceof AutoCloseable && CLOSE_METHOD_NAME.equals(destroyMethodNames[0]));
 			if (!this.invokeAutoCloseable) {
 				this.destroyMethodNames = destroyMethodNames;
-				Method[] destroyMethods = new Method[destroyMethodNames.length];
-				for (int i = 0; i < destroyMethodNames.length; i++) {
-					String destroyMethodName = destroyMethodNames[i];
+				List<Method> destroyMethods = new ArrayList<>();
+				for (String destroyMethodName : destroyMethodNames) {
 					Method destroyMethod = determineDestroyMethod(destroyMethodName);
 					if (destroyMethod == null) {
 						if (beanDefinition.isEnforceDestroyMethod()) {
@@ -137,9 +137,14 @@ else if (paramTypes.length == 1 && boolean.class != paramTypes[0]) {
 						}
 						destroyMethod = ClassUtils.getInterfaceMethodIfPossible(destroyMethod, bean.getClass());
 					}
-					destroyMethods[i] = destroyMethod;
+					if (destroyMethod != null && Modifier.isPrivate(destroyMethod.getModifiers())) {
+						if (beanDefinition.isExternallyManagedDestroyMethod(ClassUtils.getQualifiedMethodName(destroyMethod))) {
+							continue;
+						}
+					}
+					destroyMethods.add(destroyMethod);
 				}
-				this.destroyMethods = destroyMethods;
+				this.destroyMethods = destroyMethods.toArray(new Method[destroyMethods.size()]);
 			}
 		}
 
diff --git a/spring-context/src/test/java/org/springframework/context/annotation/Spr3775InitDestroyLifecycleTests.java b/spring-context/src/test/java/org/springframework/context/annotation/Spr3775InitDestroyLifecycleTests.java
index 821fffffcf57..93742e2a801f 100644
--- a/spring-context/src/test/java/org/springframework/context/annotation/Spr3775InitDestroyLifecycleTests.java
+++ b/spring-context/src/test/java/org/springframework/context/annotation/Spr3775InitDestroyLifecycleTests.java
@@ -136,6 +136,30 @@ public void testJsr250AnnotationsWithShadowedMethods() {
 				bean.destroyMethods);
 	}
 
+	@Test
+	public void testJsr250AnnotationsWithCustomPrivateInitDestroyMethods() {
+		Class<?> beanClass = CustomAnnotatedPrivateInitDestroyBean.class;
+		DefaultListableBeanFactory beanFactory = createBeanFactoryAndRegisterBean(beanClass, "customInit1", "customDestroy1");
+		CustomAnnotatedPrivateInitDestroyBean bean =
+				(CustomAnnotatedPrivateInitDestroyBean) beanFactory.getBean(LIFECYCLE_TEST_BEAN);
+		assertMethodOrdering("init-methods", Arrays.asList("privateCustomInit1","afterPropertiesSet"), bean.initMethods);
+		beanFactory.destroySingletons();
+		assertMethodOrdering("destroy-methods", Arrays.asList("privateCustomDestroy1","destroy"), bean.destroyMethods);
+	}
+
+	@Test
+	public void testJsr250AnnotationsWithCustomSameMethodNames() {
+		Class<?> beanClass = CustomAnnotatedPrivateSameNameInitDestroyBean.class;
+		DefaultListableBeanFactory beanFactory = createBeanFactoryAndRegisterBean(beanClass, "customInit1", "customDestroy1");
+		CustomAnnotatedPrivateSameNameInitDestroyBean bean =
+				(CustomAnnotatedPrivateSameNameInitDestroyBean) beanFactory.getBean(LIFECYCLE_TEST_BEAN);
+		assertMethodOrdering("init-methods",
+				Arrays.asList("privateCustomInit1","afterPropertiesSet","sameNameCustomInit1"), bean.initMethods);
+		beanFactory.destroySingletons();
+		assertMethodOrdering("destroy-methods",
+				Arrays.asList("privateCustomDestroy1","destroy","sameNameCustomDestroy1"), bean.destroyMethods);
+	}
+
 	@Test
 	public void testAllLifecycleMechanismsAtOnce() {
 		Class<?> beanClass = AllInOneBean.class;
@@ -192,6 +216,31 @@ public void customDestroy() throws Exception {
 		}
 	}
 
+	public static class CustomAnnotatedPrivateInitDestroyBean extends CustomInitializingDisposableBean{
+
+		@PostConstruct
+		private void customInit1() throws Exception {
+			this.initMethods.add("privateCustomInit1");
+		}
+
+		@PreDestroy
+		private void customDestroy1() throws Exception {
+			this.destroyMethods.add("privateCustomDestroy1");
+		}
+
+	}
+
+	public static class CustomAnnotatedPrivateSameNameInitDestroyBean extends CustomAnnotatedPrivateInitDestroyBean {
+
+		private void customInit1() throws Exception {
+			this.initMethods.add("sameNameCustomInit1");
+		}
+
+		private void customDestroy1() throws Exception {
+			this.destroyMethods.add("sameNameCustomDestroy1");
+		}
+
+	}
 
 	public static class CustomInitializingDisposableBean extends CustomInitDestroyBean
 			implements InitializingBean, DisposableBean {