support timeout for write

[wjhuang2016]

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The file that the logger is writing is over a network. Writing a log should not be blocked forever if the network is down.

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Support a config item write timeout, we can use SetWriteDeadline() provided by golang for the opened filed.
If the deadline is reached, the log operation should be returned instead of blocked.

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pingcap/tidb#35007

[prashantv]

Zap works with any io.Writer, so you could build a custom io.Writer that calls SetWriteDeadline as part of the Write call.