TLS 1.3 does not support all TLS options

[lukebakken]

The following options will cause RabbitMQ to crash upon startup if TLS 1.3 is the only enabled version:

ssl_options.client_renegotiation
ssl_options.secure_renegotiate

Reported in this rabbitmq-users discussion:

https://groups.google.com/g/rabbitmq-users/c/ZLdFmiqETZc/m/ED85hR7eAgAJ

I'm not quite sure if this is just a documentation issue or if schema validation should take this into account as well.

[michaelklishin]

We can try special casing in configuration validation.

[lukebakken]

@michaelklishin this commit added ssl:handle_options which could be used to validate options earlier - erlang/otp@6a6410b