test(NODE-4826): update command monitoring tests

[durran]

Description

Updates command logging and monitoring tests to mongodb/specifications@735a667 to fix the failures on latest server due to the nonce command being removed.

What is changing?

• Moves test/spec/command-monitoring to test/spec/command-logging-and-monitoring to match spec.
• Moves test/integration/command-monitoring to test/integration/command-logging-and-monitoring to match directory structure.
• Ignores the synced logging unified tests but syncs them to latest.
• Syncs to the latest command logging and monitoring spec tests. (mongodb/specifications@735a667)
• Fix the integration test that was checking nonce to use hello with speculativeAuthenticate

Is there new documentation needed for these changes?

None

What is the motivation for this change?

NODE-4826 and current failing evergreen builds on latest server.

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