When building a python c-extension using the limited_api, windows should link with python3.lib

[mattip]

Describe the bug
In dependencies/python.py:PythonSystemDependency::get_windows_link_args(), the link library will always be pythonxy.lib where xy is 311. But when building a c-extension using the limited api (i.e. -DPy_LIMITED_API=0x03060000) the name should be python3.lib

To Reproduce
This is from PR numpy/numpy#24206 where I am converting an existing test that uses setup.py to meson.

project('limited_api', 'c', 'cython')

py_mod = import('python')
py3 = py_mod.find_installation(pure: false)

cc = meson.get_compiler('c')

npy_include_path = run_command(py3, ['-c',
               'import os; os.chdir(".."); import numpy; print(os.path.abspath(numpy.get_include()))'],
                         check: true).stdout().strip()

py3.extension_module(
    'limited_api',
    'limited_api.c',
    install: false,
    c_args: [
      '-DNPY_NO_DEPRECATED_API=0',  # Cython still uses old NumPy C API
      '-DPy_LIMITED_API=0x03060000',
    ],
    include_directories: [npy_include_path],
)

Expected behavior
There should be a way to tell meson to build limited_api c-extensions.

system parameters

• Is this a cross build or just a plain native build (for the same computer)? native build
• what operating system (e.g. MacOS Catalina, Windows 10, CentOS 8.0, Ubuntu 18.04, etc.) windows
• what Python version are you using e.g. 3.8.0 3.11
• what meson --version latest
• what ninja --version if it's a Ninja build from PyPI

[eli-schwartz]

This exact feature is being prototyped by @amcn in #11745, please provide feedback.

[mattip]

thanks. I searched the issues but not the PRs.