Update kustomize to a version that supports oci repos

[Griznah]

What would you like to be added:
A current version of kustomize, ie. https://github.com/kubernetes-sigs/kustomize/releases/tag/kustomize%2Fv5.3.0
Why is this needed:
To use built in kustomize with OCI helm repos as added in kubernetes-sigs/kustomize#5167

[lucsoft]

Took me a while to find out that my newest version of kubectl doesn't ship with the newest version of kustomize? Tried to debug why oci helm charts arent working... now i found the issue. Why does kubectl not just use the latest version of kustomize?

[lucsoft]

Current main has pinned a version for over 10 months, thats crazy :D

[eddiezane]

@koba1t how do you want to handle bumping kustomize in kubectl going forward?

[koba1t]

@eddiezane
I plan to kustomize maintainer update kustomize in kubectl when we release a new version.
I think it means we keep the current flow.

We haven't created a new release of Kustomize recently because we are still a bit confused by the change in the lead.
I plan to create a new release next week and use it to update the kustomize pkg in kubectl.

[koba1t]

I created a PR that updates kustomize-in-kubectl.
kubernetes/kubernetes#124217