Fix flakiness in BuildTriggerTest

[raul-arabaolaza]

There was the possibility of a race condition where the queue was empty but the downstream job not yet added to it, resulting in assertions about the downstream being checked too early and fail.

Show in a CI run under heavy load, not something usual, but this change should remove the possibility

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