Fix connection Close hanging if CLIENT REPLY is set to OFF or SKIP.

This includes a rework of how command actions are handled to use a
single map lookup based on generated permutations to improve performance
and allow it to be used in both activeConn and conn. Replication of this
lookup is need as its impossible to share information between the
different Conn interface implementations due to returning interface
instead of concrete type.

The performance improvements, 33-89% sec/op and eliminating all memory
allocations, help to mitigate the impact of double lookup.

This also expands the benchmark coverage to allow for wider validation
of this change.

Fixes #361

go test -run=^$ -bench=BenchmarkLookupCommand -count=10 -benchmem > orig.log
benchstat orig.log permute.log
goos: linux
goarch: amd64
pkg: github.com/gomodule/redigo/redis
cpu: 11th Gen Intel(R) Core(TM) i9-11900H @ 2.50GHz
                                │   orig.log   │             permute.log             │
                                │    sec/op    │   sec/op     vs base                │
LookupCommandInfoCorrectCase-16    55.89n ± 7%   37.24n ± 2%  -33.37% (p=0.000 n=10)
LookupCommandInfoMixedCase-16     359.85n ± 9%   38.79n ± 2%  -89.22% (p=0.000 n=10)
LookupCommandInfoNoMatch-16       262.45n ± 1%   36.98n ± 4%  -85.91% (p=0.000 n=10)
geomean                            174.1n        37.66n       -78.37%

                                │   orig.log   │               permute.log               │
                                │     B/op     │    B/op     vs base                     │
LookupCommandInfoCorrectCase-16   0.000 ± 0%     0.000 ± 0%         ~ (p=1.000 n=10) ¹
LookupCommandInfoMixedCase-16     32.00 ± 0%      0.00 ± 0%  -100.00% (p=0.000 n=10)
LookupCommandInfoNoMatch-16       8.000 ± 0%     0.000 ± 0%  -100.00% (p=0.000 n=10)
geomean                                      ²               ?                       ² ³
¹ all samples are equal
² summaries must be >0 to compute geomean
³ ratios must be >0 to compute geomean

                                │   orig.log   │               permute.log               │
                                │  allocs/op   │ allocs/op   vs base                     │
LookupCommandInfoCorrectCase-16   0.000 ± 0%     0.000 ± 0%         ~ (p=1.000 n=10) ¹
LookupCommandInfoMixedCase-16     4.000 ± 0%     0.000 ± 0%  -100.00% (p=0.000 n=10)
LookupCommandInfoNoMatch-16       2.000 ± 0%     0.000 ± 0%  -100.00% (p=0.000 n=10)
geomean                                      ²               ?                       ² ³
¹ all samples are equal
² summaries must be >0 to compute geomean
³ ratios must be >0 to compute geomean

Add support for newer command which impact the state of a client
connection hence need special handling when returning connections to the
pool.

Also add missing type assertions for ConnWithContext on connection types.