Introduce Extension Point To Force Eviction

[rreich]

With the SQLExceptionOverride it is already possible to prevent the eviction of a connection.
What we are missing is the opposite: Force the eviction based on an SQLException that would by default not trigger an eviction.

While it would probably be possible to make the ERROR_STATES and ERROR_CODES configurable, it would probably make more sense to have a feature like the SQLExceptionOverride or even extend the existing feature by moving the call of SQLExceptionOverride#adjudicate up, out of the surrounding if and adding a FORCE_EVICT entry to the enum.

Another suggestion from an existing issue was to allow overriding the complete checkException(SQLException) method, but I guess that would be harder to use and would be another different concept for a very similar use-case. See #2015

Original use-case: #2185