Allow configuration of column filter behavior

[j-baum]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
I heavily use filters to navigate in large tables. Which means I often click on the filter icon. It would be great if I could reduce mouse clicks by allowing some configuration of the filters built in to ipydatagrid.

Describe the solution you'd like
When I click on the filter icon on top of a table column, a selection menu opens up that allows me to choose what I want to do. I would like to be able to pre-configure a column so that clicking on it will always, for instance, do "filter by value".

Additional context
In case this is already possible, it would be great to have more guidance on how to find relevant documentation.

I would be happy to help with the implementation, but I assume some js/css expertise is required, which I don't have. If it can be done from the python side, a pointer in where to start looking at the code would be appreciated.