support data type coerced and decimal in INLIST expr

[liukun4515]

related issue:

• InList: Can't cast the list expr data type to value expr data type directly #2774
• InList Expr: expr and list values must can be converted to a same data type #2759
• Support cast to/from NULL and DataType::Decimal arrow-rs#1921
• InList: Don't treat Null as UTF8(None) #2782
• InList: don't need to treat Null as UTF8 data type #2773
• support decimal in (NULL) #2800
• InList: fix bug for comparing with Null in the list using the set optimization #2809

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When I apply the in list filter to the below table

❯ \d food
+---------------+--------------+------------+-------------+-----------------+-------------+
| table_catalog | table_schema | table_name | column_name | data_type       | is_nullable |
+---------------+--------------+------------+-------------+-----------------+-------------+
| datafusion    | public       | food       | a           | Decimal(10, 5)  | NO          |
| datafusion    | public       | food       | b           | Decimal(20, 15) | NO          |
| datafusion    | public       | food       | c           | Boolean         | NO          |
+---------------+--------------+------------+-------------+-----------------+-------------+

❯  select * from food where a in (1);
ArrowError(ExternalError(NotImplemented("InList does not support datatype Decimal(10, 5).")))

explain the query:

❯ explain select * from food where a in (1);
+---------------+------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| plan_type     | plan                                                                                                                                                                         |
+---------------+------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| logical_plan  | Projection: #food.a, #food.b, #food.c                                                                                                                                        |
|               |   Filter: #food.a IN ([Int64(1)])                                                                                                                                            |
|               |     TableScan: food projection=Some([a, b, c]), partial_filters=[#food.a IN ([Int64(1)])]                                                                                    |
| physical_plan | ProjectionExec: expr=[a@0 as a, b@1 as b, c@2 as c]                                                                                                                          |
|               |   CoalesceBatchesExec: target_batch_size=4096                                                                                                                                |
|               |     FilterExec: a@0 IN ([CastExpr { expr: Literal { value: Int64(1) }, cast_type: Decimal(10, 5), cast_options: CastOptions { safe: false } }])                              |
|               |       RepartitionExec: partitioning=RoundRobinBatch(16)                                                                                                                      |
|               |         CsvExec: files=[/Users/kliu3/Documents/github/arrow-datafusion/datafusion-cli/target/debug/aggregate_simple.csv], has_header=false, limit=None, projection=[a, b, c] |
|               |                                                                                                                                                                              |
+---------------+------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
2 rows in set. Query took 0.007 seconds.

We need convert the data type of expr and list to the common data type.

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[liukun4515]

I will file a PR to fix it.

[liukun4515]

blocked by this issue #2759