Sort Merge Join. LeftAnti issues

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Describe the bug

The ticket is umbrella for Sort Merge Join LeftAnti bugs.
Currently Sort Merge Join LeftAnti crashes or gives the wrong result.

To Reproduce

To reproduce it is enough to run Q21 TPCH bench in bench.sh

 RUST_BACKTRACE=1 RESULTS_NAME=smj ./benchmarks/bench.sh run tpch_smj

Or just Q21

    $CARGO_COMMAND --bin tpch -- benchmark datafusion --iterations 5 --query 21 --path "${TPCH_DIR}" --prefer_hash_join false --format parquet -o ${RESULTS_FILE}

Expected behavior

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Additional context

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