Enable batch size finder for distributed strategies

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Description & Motivation

It's not clear why it's currently disabled here.

Pitch

There should not be a big difference in how it works vs. LR finder. E.g. all ranks try the same size under try/catch and reduce 1 or 0 based on whether it was successful. This operation is repeated with a given strategy until all ranks are successful.

Alternatives

Manual HPO

Additional context

No response

cc @Borda

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Any context on this is greatly appreciated, @awaelchli @carmocca. Thanks!