fix(types): correctly infer this when using pre('updateOne') with { document: true, query: false }

[vkarpov15]

Fix #11257

Summary

pre('updateOne') currently infers this is a document, rather than a query by default.

Examples

[hasezoey]

ts-benchmark is failing with this PR, is this something that can be fixed without removing the types again?

[vkarpov15]

@hasezoey that's just due to TS slowdowns creeping up on us, and this change is just the straw that broke the camel's back. This PR increased instantiations from around 99k to just over 100k.

I think the PR that started the TS performance degradation creep was this one: 76eaadd . Here's TS benchmark after: https://github.com/Automattic/mongoose/actions/runs/3231069336/jobs/5329705376 and previous TS benchmark run: https://github.com/Automattic/mongoose/actions/runs/3212307397/jobs/5251060253 . We'll investigate and see if we can get rid of some of the perf overhead of #12536

[hasezoey]

i guess we just need / can only increase the threshold now, the types are just getting more complex to actually represent what is going on at runtime.
(i am not a typescript wizard, and i can barely get the types to be correct, so i have no clue about optimizing them while still being correct)